One line of argument that tries to further segregate transgender people is that they are not “real” women or men
because they do not have the exact same experiences as most cisgender
people. This is dangerous in the sense that it invalidates the lived
experiences of a threatened minority group, while othering them and
opening the door for “separate but equal” legal marginalization. It’s
also wrong on a number of levels.
Transgender
people are held to a double (read impossible) standard for asserting
the validity of their gender identities. David Reimer was raised as a
girl, but no one questioned whether he was a “real” boy when he asserted
gender identity. The same is true for the guevodoces. In this,
we can see that when someone asserts a gender other than the one they
were raised in, it is only treated as valid if the individual’s eventual
identity is cisgender.
Similarly,
many transgender children are now socially transitioning at an early
enough age that they will likely have almost no memory of having lived
in a different gender role. Even in my case, as a “late” transitioner
(mid-30’s), when I die I will likely have spent more than half my life
being treated as a woman. On top of that, there’s the issue that male privilege is not monolithic.
Finally,
the argument that you’re only a “real” woman if you have menstruated,
are fertile, or have had children is reductionist and vaguely creepy, in
a Handmaiden’s Tale kind of way. There are cisgender women who
never have a period, are infertile, or choose not to have children and
don’t have to defend the validity of their gender identity and
expression.
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